I pledge to believe in my power to shape my reality. I understand that my mindset and perspective influence my experiences. By adopting a proactive and empowered mindset, I commit to changing my circumstances and creating the reality I desire. I know I have the freedom to pave my own path and shape my circumstances according to my wishes. Even in the face of challenges, I affirm my ability to make choices and take actions that will produce the results and reality I want.
OUR CODE
The way of the Definitive Man™
The TDM™ Program is rooted in ten guiding principles crafted by our founder, Bob Kalili. These principles draw from his extensive knowledge in psychology, spirituality, advanced leadership and management, and over 15 years of applying transformational self-leadership, professional and personal development philosophies.
These principles form the cornerstone of our program, guiding all members to aspire to, maintain, and embody them as both personal and collective values. They represent the code of behavior that epitomizes the essence of a Definitive Man™.
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Freedom: Mind Shapes Reality
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Peace: I am So I BecomeI pledge to prioritize inner peace as the foundation of my journey towards empowerment. I understand that happiness comes not only from external achievements but also from the calmness within myself. I commit to cultivating a peaceful inner state, even amidst life's challenges, allowing myself to find clarity and peace amid chaos. Through mindfulness, self-reflection, and self-care, I will prioritize my emotional well-being and mental clarity.
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Quality: Thriving, Not SurvivingI pledge to focus on quality in everything I do, aiming for excellence and constant growth in both my personal and professional life. This means building real relationships based on trust, respect, and empathy, and also investing in my own development. I am committed to providing the same level of quality and support to those who matter to me, ensuring their happiness and achievements. By embracing this value, I am determined to lead a fulfilling life that brings purpose and meaning to myself and my loved ones.
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Respect: As Within So WithoutI pledge to fully commit to making a significant impact in every aspect of my life. I believe real empowerment comes from creating positive change and leaving a meaningful legacy. So, I pledge to always pursue excellence, push boundaries, and motivate others to do the same. By achieving transformative results and fostering lasting change, I aim to earn the respect and admiration of those around me. My goal is to lead by example, showing integrity, passion, and unwavering dedication, and using my influence to uplift and empower others as I go.
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Purposefulness: Guided By MeaningI pledge to find and chase my life's purpose. I realize that real happiness comes from living according to my values, passions, and dreams. Therefore, I commit to exploring myself thoroughly, overcoming obstacles to uncover my true calling. Once discovered, I'll pursue it boldly and persistently. I understand that following my purpose not only brings personal fulfillment but also enables me to make a positive impact on the world. I welcome this journey, allowing my purpose to lead me toward a life of meaning and impact.
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Authenticity: Truth in EssenceI pledge to be authentic in all aspects of my life, aligning my actions, words, and values with my true self. I'll embrace my uniqueness, including strengths, weaknesses, and imperfections, with honesty and openness. I know that authenticity fosters genuine connections and meaningful relationships, with myself and others. So, I'm dedicated to living authentically and letting my true essence shine in everything I do. By staying true to myself, I hope to inspire others to do the same and make a positive difference in the world.
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Systems: I Work, They WorkI pledge to fully embracing system-building, understanding its importance in creating a lasting legacy. I'll construct robust, adaptable, and sustainable systems for the benefit of future generations. Recognizing the significance of long-term planning, I vow to consider the consequences of my actions on the future. Through building enduring systems, I aim to leave a legacy of innovation and prosperity for myself, my descendants, and society. I'll approach system-building with foresight, creativity, and integrity, aiming to develop lasting solutions that contribute to a brighter future for all.
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Happiness: Life's Gentle MelodyI pledge to fully embrace happiness by prioritizing security, stability, and control in my life. I understand that genuine success and fulfillment come from having these foundations. Security gives me a sense of safety, so I can pursue my dreams without worrying about instability. Stability helps me stay strong and remain consistent in tough times, so I can face challenges with confidence and determination. And having control empowers me to shape my future, make smart choices, and follow my passions with purpose and freedom.
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Standards: Guiding Stars WithinI pledge to set high standards in every aspect of my life, striving for excellence and the best results possible. By maintaining these standards, I ensure that my actions align with my values, goals, and potential. Clear standards provide stability and guidance amid life's uncertainties, enabling me to tackle challenges with confidence. I recognize that by upholding high standards, I not only achieve personal success but also inspire others to do their best. These standards will propel me toward realizing my utmost potential and contribute to a brighter future for myself and those I influence.
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Celebration: Echoes of AchievementI pledge to acknowledge and cheer on my achievements, no matter how small, with gratitude and joy. Celebrating myself boosts my self-esteem, bolsters my confidence, and fosters a mindset of abundance and achievement. It also lets me reflect on my progress, strengths, and areas for growth. By embracing celebration, I create a positive environment where successes are valued and accomplishments are acknowledged, supporting myself and others. Making self-celebration a priority honors my journey, acknowledges my worth, and promotes ongoing growth and success.